One of my favorite people in the world asked me, “why don’t you still blog?” It clicked and I knew then that there was something I was supposed to be doing, and that was blogging.

So many times we get caught up in our own desires and what “I” need that we forget about others. My pastor (Craig) said it best, “if you have both hands full how can you help others?” It is better to have less of what doesn’t matter and more of what does. Ecclesiastes 4:6

Over the years I have learned that every trial and tribulation was ordained by God (my testimony). It was not necessarily for me, but to help others. The voice God has given me was not meant to keep to my self, but to vocalize to other women who are going through and need a little guidance. I used to ask God “why me, why give me this voice? I am not worthy!” And God simply said, “why not you?” God uses killers, thieves, etc., so why not use me? He has allowed me to stand in just about every shoe: single mother, divorced, married, sister, daughter, friend, best friend, etc. As women we can help each other in so many ways rather than tearing each other down.

My mission this year is to be consistent in everything, more helpful, and releasing the things that don’t matter nor add positivity to my life so I can make room for better!

-Cre’

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Forgiveness asks us not only to forgive those who hurt us, but also Love them. And see that from their point of view, they are in tremendous pain and their act against us was just a very messed up request for Love.

I have felt VERY slighted by a person close in my “circle” of life, yet I must remember that their point of view of me is not important and it does not make or BREAK me. I thought of that person when reading this quote and I must remember each and every time they offend me, slight me, or disregard me & my endeavors I should forgive them in my heart. Opposed to holding on to ill-feelings I will release that negativity through a silent forgiveness. They may not ask for it, and may not even realize they need to be forgiven for their ways, however I will work on forgiving more and more in my life.

I charge you to do the same! Forgive. Let go. Elevate yourself through love. This is the sure way to break free and live a fulfilling life. Grudges block TOO many blessings.

Be Blessed

Chon “Gossiper” Renee’

Consider this quote as you answer this question for yourself:

“There is an Indian Belief that everyone is in a house of four rooms: A physical, a mental, an emotional and a spiritual. Most of us tend to live in one room most of the time, but unless we go into every room everyday, even if only to keep it aired, we are not complete.”

– Rumer Godden

You HAVE to have balance in your life. As simple as that. You cannot function, operate, or succeed even, without it. I have been asked “how do you do all that you do, and still keep it together (mentally),” my response- BALANCE. I realize that one entity cannot thrive without the other in check as well. Physically, mentally, emotionally, & spiritually, I must be in check. After those things, then I can move on to the obvious (things you actually can see with your eyes)- I do this by prioritizing. I often relate someone’s bedroom to match what’s going on in their life- if it’s a mess, you are probably a mess- all over the place, discombobulated, and lacking sense of priority. When this happens to me the first thing I do is clean my room- and I’m not talking about shoving stuff under the bed because just like in life- by just shoving things to hide them opposed to cleaning it up, it will come back to haunt you! Balance out your time between the responsibilities, projects, and needs of yourself & family through prioritizing. Without balance everything is naturally out of whack!

What will you start with first?

Blessings,

Chon “Gossiper” Renee’

Happy Resurrection Day to all who believe that Jesus took up his cross, was nailed to it, bled on it, and died on it, HOWEVER, 3 days later rose again! Happy Resurrection Day to you all that believe He is the way, the truth and the light.I am really excited this Easter because I, for the first time ever, observed Lent. By doing so it really made me reflect, reverence, and appreciate the selfless act of love that Jesus did for me years ago every single day for the past 40 days. Because I observed Lent & made my sacrifices of Starbucks, all coffee, social media, meat, etc., the purpose of Easter resonates in my soul. Last year I watched “The Passion of Christ” for the first time and I did so again this year, and I cringed, cried, shook my head in disbelief, and cried some more, all because I realized how unworthy I am, but yet, THANKFUL to be saved by the love, grace & mercy of Jesus Christ.

All to Him I owe!

What greater sign can any man show than with his own blood?

Blessings,

Chon “Gossiper” Renee’

We must be humble and patient and remember to step into the flow of God, which does not operate when and how you want it to. If we are to truly become one with God and all the GLORY and RADNESS that He has in store for us, we must learn to adopt His pace and flow with Him instead of trying to make HIM bend to OUR will.

This is one of the many ways that ego drives us away from our dreams. And we, if we are to become master co-creators of our lives, must see our impatience as a lack of wisdom and begin to surrender the outcome of all our affairs to the perfect timing of God. This includes your job, love life, money, friends, everything. God knows your heart’s desires; He gave them to you in the first place, so why oh why do you doubt that they will be left unfulfilled? That doubt creates the environment and the conditions for your dreams to NOT come true.

Doubt your doubt and you’ll be free! And remember, a DELAY is NOT a DENIAL!

Blessings,

Chon “Gossiper” Renee’

“I learned you have to trust yourself, be what you are, and do what you ought to do the way you should do it. You have got to discover you, what you do, and trust it.”

- Barbra Streisand, Grammy award winning singer, Academy Award winning actress.

“When it is obvious that the goals cannot be reached, don’t adjust the goals, adjust the action steps.”

- Confucius, was a great Chinese thinker and philosopher.

“Keep your dreams alive. Understand to achieve anything requires faith and belief in yourself, vision, hard work, determination, and dedication. Remember all things are possible for those who believe.”

- Gail Devers, is a three time Olympic champion.

“You have all you need within you to become the best version of yourself. Anything that inspires you is an outward reflection of the potential within you. Cultivate in your own life, in your own way, the qualities and greatness you see in others and pretty soon you will be living a life that is your personal version of greatness. Your work is to apply yourself everyday and don’t look back.”

- Jackson Kiddard, author & polymath

Think beyond your over-crowded closet, or dust-collecting souvenirs. Think about all that is crowded your life, mind, body and spirit. If you think about it- when your room/house is a mess, typically your life may be as well; at least for that moment. I don’t mean to offend, but personally, when a part of my house (especially my bedroom-where I have to lay my head & should be at peace while doing so) is messy and not kept up, there is some lack of time-management and priorities going on at that time of my life. Not only is my room a cluttered mess, but so is my mind. It becomes nerve-racking. Yet, as soon as I take the much needed time to clean up, my mind is instantly freed.

So, back to my question- What in your life do you need to clean up? Relationship drama? Work issues? Procrastination problems? Parenting skills? Friendships? Self-esteem and worth? Now is the time. A lot of people get caught up in New Year’s Resolutions and all of that, but there really isn’t a set time for you to get it together and start anew. You can ultimately do that every single day!

Blessings to You!

Chon “Gossiper” Renee’

However, I have found a renovated outlook on the color Black. Black is power. Black is bold. Black is confident. Black is chic. Black is beautiful. Black is deep. Black is polished. Black is All That!

What is Black to you???

Happy BLACK History Month!

Don’t give all your love away today, save some for yourself. Self-Love is the best love. Strive to love yourself as God loves you: unconditional, flaws-n-all, strongly, boldly, & compassionately.

With Love,

Chon “Gossiper” Renee’