G.O.S.S.I.P. Sister

One Shot
We may only get one shot at life, but that doesn’t mean we only get one shot with the things in our life. In life we are given a certain amount of arrows and it’s up to us where we direct those arrows. Some shoot them with no real target; shoot them at the [...]

“It Takes 2″
As a young man still learning the inexhaustible characteristics of a woman I seem to always find myself caught in a particular lecture called “Things a Man Should be Doing for a Woman.” I hear from women all the time about the things their mother, grandma, aunt, etc. tells them of how a [...]

It is for you or its not!
We have the tendency to hold on to things that we know we shouldn’t be holding on to. Whether it’s those pairs of shoes in your closet that you haven’t worn in 3 years, but you have them just in case; or what about the clothes that has no [...]

Take the Journey.
It seems like with everything in life we are always over analyzing every crucial decision we make in our lives. Whether, it’s a job, what degree we should major in, hair style, clothes to wear, and oh yes, that significant other. There are different reasons why we over-think or hesitate on making these [...]

The Potter’s House
Arise, and go down to the potter’s house, and there I will cause thee to hear my words. Then I went down to the potter’s house, and, behold, he wrought a work on the wheels (Jeremiah 18:2-3).
When a potter makes his creations out of clay, he spends a lot of time turning it [...]

Green Grass
We are all in search for Greener Grass. As we come to the end of another year, we reflect on all the things we went through in 2009. We try to get rid of all the bad and foster the good things for the upcoming year; see what changes we need to make and [...]

You can be my baby, it don’t matter if you’re black or white! -Michael Jackson, Black or White.
There seems to be a big dilemma about how a lot of established black men have a thing for white women. The main argument is that white women are less dramatic and are easier get along with than [...]

Ladies,
Stop trying to be married before your married. Make sense right? However, a lot of women seem to be guilty cooperates of this heinous crime. Woman have a misconception that if they have a man, especially if he’s a man that you see yourself marrying, that you have to do everything for him. YOU DO [...]

SENSITIVITY
How come men are not as sensitive as you want them to be? Well it’s mainly how we are raised. I can hear the words of my father now “Are you a man or mouse”. I’ll reply, “I’m a man” even though I wanted to say mouse sometimes; however, I knew that was not acceptable. [...]

CHECKMATE!
Do not tell a man you like him until he tells you first. Don’t put any pressure on the relationship if he is not giving you what you want back. This does not mean that you have to wait forever, because if you see there isn’t any change for the better, then move on. This [...]