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Expectations Lauryn Hill said it best “It could all be so simple, but [we] rather make it hard”. There is no real struggle in wanting simple things, a simple job and a simple relationship. However, high achievement always takes place in the framework of high expectation.

Innocent: free from guilt or sin especially through lack of knowledge of evil. Remember as a child life seemed so free and there really wasn’t a care in the world besides coming in the house at a certain time? You had no worries and every experience was a new adventure filled with thrills and excitement. [...]

One Shot We may only get one shot at life, but that doesn’t mean we only get one shot with the things in our life. In life we are given a certain amount of arrows and it’s up to us where we direct those arrows. Some shoot them with no real target; shoot them at [...]

“It Takes 2″ As a young man still learning the inexhaustible characteristics of a woman I seem to always find myself caught in a particular lecture called “Things a Man Should be Doing for a Woman.” I hear from women all the time about the things their mother, grandma, aunt, etc. tells them of how [...]

It is for you or its not! We have the tendency to hold on to things that we know we shouldn’t be holding on to. Whether it’s those pairs of shoes in your closet that you haven’t worn in 3 years, but you have them just in case; or what about the clothes that has [...]

Take the Journey. It seems like with everything in life we are always over analyzing every crucial decision we make in our lives. Whether, it’s a job, what degree we should major in, hair style, clothes to wear, and oh yes, that significant other. There are different reasons why we over-think or hesitate on making [...]

The Potter’s House Arise, and go down to the potter’s house, and there I will cause thee to hear my words. Then I went down to the potter’s house, and, behold, he wrought a work on the wheels (Jeremiah 18:2-3). When a potter makes his creations out of clay, he spends a lot of time [...]

Green Grass We are all in search for Greener Grass. As we come to the end of another year, we reflect on all the things we went through in 2009. We try to get rid of all the bad and foster the good things for the upcoming year; see what changes we need to make [...]

You can be my baby, it don’t matter if you’re black or white! -Michael Jackson, Black or White. There seems to be a big dilemma about how a lot of established black men have a thing for white women. The main argument is that white women are less dramatic and are easier get along with [...]

Ladies, Stop trying to be married before your married. Make sense right? However, a lot of women seem to be guilty cooperates of this heinous crime. Woman have a misconception that if they have a man, especially if he’s a man that you see yourself marrying, that you have to do everything for him. YOU [...]