G.O.S.S.I.P. Sister

I had the honor of being a guest speaker at a workshop tailored for teenage/young adult ladies. My topic was self-value and confidence tips. I just want to share my outline, because young or old we can all put to use some of life’s most valuable lessons. Below is the outline of what I presented.

I AM A B.A.D. SISTER!

BEAUTIFUL AND DYNAMIC- EVERYDAY

BEAUTIFUL ASTONISHING DIVA- LIFE

BOLD AND DETERMINED- CAREER & GOALS

BELOVED ALLURING DOLL- LOVE

BLESSED ANNOINTED DIV-A-INE- CHURCH LIFE

THINGS TO LEARN QUICKLY GROWING UP:

LOVE & RESPECT YOURSELF

BE TRUE TO YOURSELF

PRESENT YOURSELF AS A LADY AT ALL TIMES

VALUE YOURSELF

BELIEVE IN YOURSELF

IF YOU DON’T DO THESE THINGS, FIRST & FOREMOST FOR YOURSELF, NO ONE ELSE WILL.

PEOPLE TREAT YOU HOW YOU TREAT YOURSELF

PEOPLE FIRST LOOK TO SEE HOW YOU CARRY YOURSELF BEFORE THEY DETERMINE HOW THEY WILL INTERACT WITH YOU-

IF YOU PRESENT YOURSELF ANY TYPE OF WAY PEOPLE WILL TREAT YOU AS SUCH

What you think about yourself is much more important than what others think of you.

- Marcus Annaeus Seneca

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.

- Eleanor Roosevelt

Every man stamps his value on himself … man is made great or small by his own will.

- J. C. F. von Schiller

It’s not who you are that holds you back, it’s who you think you’re not. ~Author Unknown

EXTRA TIDBITS TO KEEP IN MIND WHEN IT COMES TO OUTER PRESENTATION

DRESS/ATTIRE:

LESS ISN’T ALWAYS BEST

TOO MUCH SKIN IS NOT IN

WHEN IN DOUBT, DO WITHOUT

POISE:

HOLD YOUR HEAD UP HIGH

LOOK PEOPLE IN THE EYE

SMILE!

-I’ve never seen a smiling face that was not beautiful. – Author Unknown

BE POSITIVE & WELCOMING

EXEMPLIFY CHARACTERISTICS OF A GODLY WOMAN

(WATCH WHAT YOU SAY, HOW YOU SAY, AND WHAT YOU DO)

CLOSING

YOU DEFINE WHAT BEAUTY IS

NOT TV, NOT A RAPPER, NOT MOVIES, NOT A SONG… BUT YOU!

EMBRACE YOUR UNIQUE BEAUTY INSIDE & OUT

LOVE YOURSELF

PUT GOD FIRST IN ALL YOU DO

EVERYTHING ELSE WILL FALL IN PLACE

Always act like you’re wearing an invisible crown. ~Author Unknown

Beauty is not real. Beauty only exists in perception.

beauty is what people see inside you not on you

People are like stained-glass windows. They sparkle and shine when the sun is out, but when the darkness sets in their true beauty is revealed only if there is light from within. ~Elisabeth Kübler-Ross

If you really put a small value upon yourself, rest assured that the world will not raise your price. ~Author Unknown

Being that this is just an outline it can come off as vague in some areas; if I need to elaborate on any parts let me know!

Be Blessed

Gossiper