My Life As A Wife!

There isn’t a guide or how to be book on being in a successful marriage or being a productive wife for that matter. Its all trial and error and every marriage is different. I tell people all the time that neither one of us are perfect BUT Rob and I are perfect for each other. The underlying message is, we both have flaws. No one is perfect, and since we know this we must embrace one another’s imperfections. Our imperfections make us who we are. Its not fair to hold your spouse/mate to standards so high they’re unattainable. What I love about Rob is he is fair and understanding. He allows me to make errors and give me time and space needed to correct them.

The counter-act of this is strengths. We all have weaknesses (flaws) and strengths. If what they say is true about opposites attracting, allow your mate to use their strengths where you may be weak. For example if your mate is strong financially; allow them to handle the bills, savings acct etc. Its all about enhancing one another to be the best. Rob and I try to bring out the best in one another and in turn add a nice balance to our relationship. Its been 8 short months so far, continue journeying with me. Don’t forget to check out Gossipers Single & The City blog. Until next time…Be Blessed

Miss Gossip