Ask The Love Doctor
Welcome to the latest edition of Ask The Love Doctor! I hope you enjoy the following advice. You can email your questions to drlove@gossipsister.com Peace and Blessings!
Dr. Love
I recently got married. We got along so well before marriage but now find myself nagging and picking all the time. My mom says I am subconsciously sabotaging a good thing because I am not used to seeing a healthy marriage. How can I change so that I don’t push my loving husband away? Sabotage
Counseling for the both of you ASAP! You have figure out why you act this way. My guess is that you are scared to open up to him and to yourself and accept the fact someone loves you and treats you right. He is not too good to be true. You need to realize that you got a REALMAN BOOBOO and that you are blessed to have him, so treat him that way (appreciate him). Put your self in his shoes you wouldn’t want him to treat you like that, so take care of home. Men hate it when women nag and have an attitude all the time. Remember what you won’t do someone else will, I’ve seen it happen many of times. Give your man the respect he deserves.
Dr. Love
I have been married for 2 years but recently I started working a different shift then my wife. We used to have sex all the time now we have to plan it. How can I ensure that is one thing that is not sacrificed in our marriage? Needy
You just have to try taking advantage of the times you guys have together whether you’re tired or she is tired you both have to make time. Sex makes a relationship very healthy and you want to keep this drive and passion burning for each other. Also make it romantic rose petals, soft music, etc. Try to spice it up a little and be spontaneous.
Dr. Love
I recently set a good friend up on a blind date with a girl from work. She thinks they have hit it off but he recently revealed his feelings for me. How should I handle this? I don’t want our friendship to be affected if we take a chance and it doesn’t work out? How do I tell the girl?
This is a tough one. The best way to handle this is just to be honest with your co-worker. Your male friend needs to express to her how he feels about her (tell her he’s not interested). Then you need to explain to her the feelings you have toward him. This way there will be no guilt if she see you guy’s out or finds out through someone else. She may not like it, but she has to respect your honesty. Put your self in her shoes and decide what you would want someone to do for you and then determine what you should do?
