Through A Man’s Eyes…
CHECKMATE!
Do not tell a man you like him until he tells you first. Don’t put any pressure on the relationship if he is not giving you what you want back. This does not mean that you have to wait forever, because if you see there isn’t any change for the better, then move on. This is not only important because you don’t want to make yourself vulnerable, but because if you force anyone into a position that they aren’t sure they want to be in, it may lead to unfortunate circumstances like constant bickering and even cheating. If you didn’t know by now, we men have funny ways, we can really be into a woman, and as soon as she tells a man that she likes him a lot and wants to be together it’s almost like finding out she has no finger nails.
Now all men do not think the same way, some men may be a little timid about expressing their feelings; some have total confidence and have no problem speaking their minds. I’ve heard from most women that they want a man that is confident. However, even though a timid man may frustrate you, the confident man is the one you have to be cautious about. I have many friends that rejection doesn’t faze them, it may sting, but they have the confidence to shake it off and go to the next woman with the same grin and same verbiage. Because they have the ability to skip along, it may be hard to determine how genuine their feelings are about you. I’m not a shy person, but I personally hate rejection. That is why a lot of times I won’t take the risk of making a full attempt at a woman I am interested in.
I have a philosophy that relationships can be compared to chess; we should respond to the other person’s move. You can let a man know that you are interested without being direct, by giving him that adoring stare or beautiful smile.. That can give almost any man the confidence to come talk to you. By building off each other we both can be successful in getting our checkMATE.
Inspirationally Yours,
Mr. I.N.S.P.I.R.E.
(Inspiring & Notably Spreading Positivity In Relationships Everywhere)
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I will have to say that I have witness this action from a man personally,but how fair is that? I say this because yeah they say that a woman wants more out of a realtionship then a man does sometimes and we are ready to get married and have babies. What is wrong with that but, I have to wait till he shows me that he wanna be with me? I might be waiting forever!!! lol But, if I decided to move on cause he isnt showing me that he wants or cares the same way I do he wont let me go! Now what am I suppose to think about that? I know you will say that may mean he wants to be with you but, what if he still acts the same? Men are so confusing how do you tell if his feelings are genuine or just blowing smoke? And if your not suppose to ask or say anything or push to much what are you suppose to do? Honestly, men are very possessive its ok for them to do it but, if you do the same you are WRONG!!!
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I agree with you both.. Mr inspire you have a great point men and boys are very ticky on jumping in relationships but I figure this more goes out to boys and not men..I believe on the other hand women shouldnt make them seleves so avalable sometimes. Us women I put myself in it to because I have been guilty in doing this, we tend to put all are eggs in one basket and we put all are emotions into to him almost looking desperate . Men respond with logic more then with emotion so put under pressure with high emotion most tend to fly instead of stay. My beliefs are let thing fall where they lay dont force it and women just love your seleves and focus on you, because 9 times out of 10 he is doing the same, and over all just do you and put it in gods hands..
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I agree with this post because, to me, men and women are different creatures—we just are. And instead of trying to deny it, we should learn how to co-exist based on what works for the two people in the relationship, and stop trying to build a relationship based on society or family/friends’ interference.
Rejection, I believe, stings for everyone but I feel the man should be the aggressor—right or wrong, this is my opinion. Therefore, a man must develop a thick skin in the initial phases of introduction/courtship. I feel developing a thick skin and not taking every rejection personally—everyone is not going to be interested or your type—is a sign of maturity from boyhood to manhood.