Through A Man’s Eyes…
Never Compromise Your Happiness.
I always find myself listening to how women will put their all into a relationship and don’t receive half of what they do back from their partners. I believe this is sad because you should never have to settle your happiness for another person who won’t do the same for you. Never force yourself on another person because you can’t change a person despite what his excuses may be, for the reason that when a man falls for a woman, we fall hard. You always hear songs about a man talking about how they’ll go to the moon, and walk thru the sun for you. Well in a way, men actually will do almost anything for a woman he feels he is in love with. I am also guilty of, as I call it, “women segregation.” If there is woman that likes me and I’m not all that interested in her, I won’t put my all into her and make legitimate excuses of why I’m not. However, if there is a woman that I am totally infatuated with and depending on the stage of my life, I will do whatever it takes to win her heart and to keep her heart. I have a cousin whose husband would drive 6 hours every weekend to see her before they were even engaged. Regardless of the fact that he was a broke college student, in his eyes she was worth every trip.
But what is your worth? You can’t expect to be an MVP without the work and sacrifice you have to put in to become that. You may see top athletes or entertainers receiving the best treatment and luxurious things; although they may take those things for granted, at some point they had to put in the necessary labor to obtain those types of resources. If you work hard in life, things have the tendency to fall into place. By taking the actions in putting your self in position to take care of your provisions, God can and will give you more than your heart desired. He said if you will be obedient of a few things He will make you ruler over many. He didn’t require us to be perfect, but to acknowledge Him in all that we do and He will do the rest. Not that I condone drinking but Kanye West said in a verse, “Forget a drink, I’ll buy you the bar if you’re worth it.” To me the bar is another example of how a man says he will go to outer space and bring you back the brightest star just to demonstrate how valuable he sees you are worth. So women don’t settle until you get your spaceman, yet remember you have to pass the requirements from NASA first.
Inspirationally Yours,
Mr. I.N.S.P.I.R.E.
(Inspiring & Notably Spreading Positivity In Relationships Everywhere)

8 comments
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Another great read. It was nice to read about the broke college student who drove 6 hours every weekend to see his lady. It’s nice to know there are still men like that
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This is always a good message to hear from time to time. I think as women, we know not to compromise our happiness, but over time we start lowering the bar and our expectations out of desperation. That desperation becomes the hope we hold on to… Then we get slapped back to reality when men like Mr. I.N.S.P.I.R.E. share such a powerful point-of-view.
Bravo!
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Wow. I think we as women need to hear more from a man’s point of view. Thanks for letting me know that if a man really loves and cares about you…he will do anything to get and keep you. In this day and time it seems as if us women have to lower our standards and lose who we are when we are with someone, but in actuality we only want someone who we can be real around and yet they will still love us.
Thank you Mr. I.N.S.P.I.R.E. I love reading your blogs:)
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WOW… I do believe that we sometimes as woman forget what we are worth and fall short of what God has plan for us. I think that we forget that he knew what and who we were going to become when we were first born; and he made everyone there own spaceman. But, for some women our gift of showing men that we love them is by giving me being one of those. Sometimes it takes a man like you or for you to go thru for you to realize that a man who loves you will never just take from you. I love this message and will share with my sisters,friends but especially for myself. I need to start realizing how important and valuable I am cause if I dont he never will! I love you cousin and keep keeping me in mine I know you love me but, I sometimes reading it hits a lil closer to home!
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Mr. Inspire you are very right…
But I feel that there is a important ingredient that missing from this recipe. I agree with you as far as in with everything that we want to obtain in are life we must work hard to get, and also have a deep relationship and trust with in god because through him nothing is impossible. But what do you say to the people that have done so but still lack a solid partnership, I don’t see a person who posses those thing in life that doesn’t have self worth.. I feel self love for are selves has a major effect on who we attract in are lives, specially the people we choose to be are partners, you can have an idea of your self worth but not put it into action because you don’t love yourself enough to stand by it. How can someone love you and you truly don’t love your self..
Always yours
Free thinker
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Free Thinker,
I definitely understand your point-of-view, and you are very right- how we treat ourselves, how we love ourselves, and how much we value our own worth will be mirrored in any relationship…
I touched on this topic a few months ago, tell me what you think: http://www.gossipsister.com/blog/2009/02/15/whats-your-self-worth-worth/
Thanks!
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I’m glad to know that this blog has/can enlighten women and assist with the empowerment of women.
That is so true that with loving yourself first. When you have self love you don’t have to be dependent on another person’s love or feel like you have to give more to someone that doesn’t deserve it. Being a MVP starts from what’s inside of you and not somebody else. We have to get rid of the things that hold us back and most importantly understand who you are, but never be afraid to get better. Including: mentally, physically, emotionally, and spiritually. Everything WILL fall into place, you’ll see
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Listening to the morning show on the radio this morning they touched on this topic. The lady said if a man you have met haven’t called or text DON’T call or text him OR try to rationalize why he isn’t communicating with you. She said actions speak louder than words and if he is into you he will show it. Exactly what Mr. INSPIRE has said through his examples which makes even more sense coming from a man. It is refreshing to know that there are men out there wanting to prove and show his emotions and feelings to the one he loves. Thanks Mr. INSPIRE for shedding light on this topic. Most women whether we admit it or not can appreciate this blog.