G.O.S.S.I.P. Sister

Ladies, Sweet Ladies,

I know there comes a time in our lives when we find ourselves questioning once again another relationship, a man, or even ourselves.  At times, this game of dating can be mind boggling.  We look past the obvious to build ourselves a dream that won’t ever come true; but all in all the bottom-line just may be that: He’s just NOT that into you!

Do you find yourself waiting for a phone call that never rings through and then making excuses for why he didn’t call?  Or how about you are the one doing all the calling to a phone that never seems to pick-up?  Maybe it’s a different scenario- you hear from him on his time, when it’s convenient for him; the phone gets answered when he feels like answering?  You go on a date and then don’t hear from the guy in weeks or maybe ever?! Whichever scenario is yours or used to be yours, if it left you thinking- hmmm, maybe he’s just not that into me? ***Ring the alarm: “HOUSTON WE HAVE A PROBLEM!!!”***

The thing is, as women, we try so hard to make it work. Women try too hard often; and it’s simply because women love hard.  Personally, I know I do.  It takes a lot for me to love but when I do it’s real and it’s enduring, even when it hurts.  The reality is chasing a man is not going to benefit you in the long run, and chasing one that doesn’t want to be caught is even more tiring.  When you arrive at the dreadful question of whether he’s into you or not, you need to pump your brakes, the chase ends there.

I believe when we get caught up in our own daily activities, and our own dreams and “realities,” and when we wrap our mind, body and soul around someone other than God; He breaks us down and shows us who it’s really about.  Ladies, we have all the love we need in a particular man- God is love.  It’s not an earthly love but a love like no other.  It’s unconditional, it’s there when you call, it’s there when you need it, it’s even there when you don’t think you need it- you know when you’re feeling on top of the world and absorbed in the blessings from whom you forgot where they cometh!  True love only comes through a relationship with Him.  I decided I won’t keep loving a man more than The Man who never stopped loving me; The Man who never ignored my call; The Man who always treated me first; The Man who doesn’t disregard my feelings; The Man who never left me hanging out to dry like laundry clothes.  It’s time to get back to the basics ladies.  If you’re in a loving and healthy relationship and it’s obvious the guy is into you, well, this ain’t for you then; but if you’re at your breaking point with relationships, love, trust, and the false hopes that go along with it, it’s time to get back to the basics. God is love.

The quote that’s going to wrap up where I’m going with this is- “A woman’s heart should be so deep in Christ that a man has to seek Him in order to find her.”  Always remember the love that you have from God is like none other.  Maybe your boyfriend or “that guy” just isn’t that into you, but know that God is!

Be Blessed (and Loved)

~Gossiper~

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